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How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts
A revolutionary dating framework that identifies what's keeping you stuck, and gives you the exact tools to create the relationship you want.
Apracticalroadmaptoupgradeyourdatingskillsandhealtheblockssabotagingconnection.
Relationship expert and Renew Breakup Bootcamp founder Amy Chan has helped thousands transform their dating lives. Her surprising discovery: most singles aren't failing at love because they need years of therapy or a complete personality overhaul. They're unknowingly repeating cycles, and once identified and interrupted, everything shifts.
In UNSINGLE, Chan introduces the Dating Funnel framework, a step-by-step system that pinpoints exactly where you're getting stuck in the dating process and why. Whether you struggle to meet quality matches, relationships fizzle after a few dates, or you're trapped in situationship cycles, this book offers a practical roadmap to upgrade your dating skills and heal the emotional blocks sabotaging connection.
Chan's approach is refreshingly honest and often hilarious. Backed by behavioral science, real client success stories, and her signature blend of tough love and genuine warmth, UNSINGLE proves that lasting love isn't about luck, it's about learnable skills.
What You'll Learn
- 01How to turn casual dating into a committed relationship, the exact system to go from situationship to serious partnership
- 02Why you keep dating the same type of person, and how your past patterns are blocking real love
- 03How to spot red flags early (including why instant chemistry is often a warning sign)
- 04The science-backed traits that predict lasting relationships, not attraction, wealth, or 'the spark'
- 05Why someone can love you but still be wrong for you, and how to walk away without guilt
- 06The attachment styles keeping you single, and how to rewire your relationship habits
"Most people are only a few adjustments away from meeting their match."
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UNSINGLE is available in hardcover, ebook, and audiobook wherever books are sold.
Breakup Bootcamp
The Science of Rewiring Your Heart
A self-affirming, science-backed guide for everyone, single or married, divorced or dating, to transform heartbreak into deep healing and long-term relationship growth.
Dubbed "a scientific Carrie Bradshaw" by The Observer. Featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Good Morning America, The Today Show, The New Yorker, The Guardian, and more.
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Who is UNSINGLE for?
UNSINGLE is for anyone ready to break unhealthy relationship patterns and learn how to date smarter. Whether you're single, navigating the modern dating world, or in a relationship and wanting to build healthier dynamics, this book gives you practical, science-backed tools to create love that lasts.
How is UNSINGLE different from Breakup Bootcamp?
Breakup Bootcamp focused on healing after heartbreak. UNSINGLE builds on that foundation and helps you create healthy love moving forward. It's the next chapter, about understanding attraction, shifting patterns, and building real compatibility.
Do I need to attend the Dating Bootcamp to benefit from the book?
Not at all. UNSINGLE was created as an on-hand guide based on the core teachings of the Bootcamp retreats. It brings the same science-backed insights and relationship tools into a format you can access anytime, anywhere.
Will this book help me if I keep attracting the wrong partners?
Yes. UNSINGLE helps you uncover the subconscious patterns driving your attraction and teaches you how to rewire them. When you start dating from awareness instead of fear or habit, everything changes, including the kind of love you attract.